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What's gweedlife?

gweedlife is a blog about our lives. Some people use "Honey", "Dear", "Sweetums" or even "Babe" as terms of endearment. But as you will find out, Bob & I don't do things like most people! "Gweed" originated when Bob & I were dating. I started calling Bob "Gweedo-Schmeedo", which was eventually shortened to just "Gweed". Being the super creative individual that he is, Bob decided to call me the same thing! So we both call each other "Gweed".

Bob Herman & Julie Anderson met on an old porch in downtown Grabill in August, 1981. Something must have happened that day, because we have been married for 26 years (!!!) & have 5 kids to prove it. We’ve lived in Grabill, Leo, South Bend & Auburn, Indiana, as well as Birmingham, Alabama & Edwardsburg, Michigan. We currently live just south of Auburn.

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Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Audacious Prayer

This morning as I read from my Bible, I felt the need to write down & share what the Holy Spirit was teaching me.

I started reading Luke 11:5-13.  “Then He said to them, ‘Suppose one of you has a friend, & goes to him at midnight & says to him, “Friend, lend me three loaves; for a friend of mine has come to me from a journey, & I have nothing to set before him”; & from inside he answers & says, “Do not bother me; the door has already been shut & my children & I are in bed; I cannot get up & give you anything.” I tell you, even though he will not get up & give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence he will get up & give him as much as he needs.

‘So I say to you, ask, & it will be given to you; seek, & you will find; knock, & it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; & he who seeks, finds; & to him who knocks, it will be opened. Now suppose one of you fathers is asked by his son for a fish; he will not give him a snake instead of a fish, will he? Or if he is asked for an egg, he will not give him a scorpion, will he? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him?’”

The thing that God pointed out to me was verses 8-10.  In the parable, Jesus said that the man with the bread wouldn’t get out of bed to help someone who was his friend.  But because the man who had the unexpected guest kept knocking on the door, kept asking for his friend’s help, because of his persistency, the man eventually got out of bed & gave to his friend as much as he needed.  The key was the persistency of the man in need.

The word “persistence” from verse 8 means “recklessness; audacity; shamelessness; disregard of considerations of the man making the request; one who knows no restraint; no deference; imprudent in one’s relationship with another”.  (From Lexical Aids to the New Testament, Spiros Zodhiates, Th. D.)  The man banging on the door was secure enough in his friendship with the man who had the bread that he shamelessly kept bugging him until he opened the door & gave him what he needed. 

In verses 9 & 10, Jesus told us to do as the persistent man did - KEEP ON asking; KEEP ON seeking; KEEP ON knocking.  EVERYONE who does those things with persistence will receive, find & have doors opened.
From Luke 11, I next cross-referenced to Luke 18:1-8.  “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray & not to lose heart, saying, ‘In a certain city there was a judge who did not fear God & did not respect man. There was a widow in that city, & she kept coming to him, saying, “Give me legal protection from my opponent.” For a while he was unwilling; but afterward he said to himself, “Even though I do not fear God nor respect man, yet because this widow bothers me, I will give her legal protection, otherwise by continually coming she will wear me out.”’ And the Lord said, ‘Hear what the unrighteous judge said; now, will not God bring about justice for His elect who cry to Him day & night, & will He delay long over them? I tell you that He will bring about justice for them quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?’”

Jesus was illustrating that we are to pray & not “lose heart”.  Just like the man who need help from his friend, the widow in this parable was persistent!  She “kept coming”, relentlessly making her request for protection.  The unrighteous judge who had no concern for the status or character of a man, was worn down by this widow.  She kept bothering him & he got tired of seeing her & hearing her case over & over again, so he relented & granted her request just to get some peace.  Jesus tied it all together by saying that if an unrighteous judge who doesn’t care about anyone but himself would give this little widow lady what she asked for, even more so God, who loves the world & everyone in the world, will hear our requests & will bring about justice.

What about that last sentence in verse 8?  “However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?”  Faith in this verse refers to faith like the persistent widow.  Will God find that I have a persistent, relentless faith that has the audacity to come to God over & over & over again with my requests, expecting Him to answer my prayers in His timing? 

So many times I’ve heard teaching on prayer that makes it out to be something mystical, something difficult, something rote.  I believe that prayer is actually quite simple - so simple that a child can do it.  It’s merely communicating with our Father.  Prayer is talking with God.  Prayer is reading His word & listening to the Holy Spirit’s teaching about what was read.  Prayer is interceding for others’ salvation.  Prayer is the cry of our hearts when we can’t find any other way to express ourselves to God.  Prayer is also “reminding” God of our needs & asking Him to provide in His time.  God WANTS us to come to Him in prayer.  Yes, He already knows what we’re going to pray before the thoughts even form in our minds.  But He still wants us to go through the process of prayer.  He wants to be our hero, the one who swoops in & rescues us.  He wants to expresses His great love & concern for us by meeting our needs & answering our prayers.  He wants our awe, our overwhelmed gratitude, our worship of Him.  

God wants us to have the audacity to come before His throne of grace & ask Him to work in our lives.  He wants us to pester Him in prayer!  Now more than ever, I am committed to being persistent in prayer, bringing every need I can think of to His attention & begging Him to intervene so that He can receive glory, honor & praise for His amazing work.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

One More Time...

The PleurX System Soon to Be A Part of Bob's Body
Thursday Bob had follow-up appointments with his doctors.  Before Dr. Sowden saw him, he had an xray of his chest performed to check for fluid.  Shortly after the xray was done, Dr. Sowden entered the room & said only a few words.  Two words, actually.  “It’s back.”

The xray revealed a significant amount of fluid which had accumulated in the lower lobe of Bob’s left lung (“And today’s program is sponsored by the letter “L”...).  Dr. Sowden hypothesized that since the pericardial windows were wide open, the fluid, which apparently originates from his heart, flowed directly downward into the next available cavity - the lung.  His right lung is dry as can be, which is great. 

Dr. Sowden told Bob he would have to install a PleurX tube only on his left side, to drain his left lung.  The tube will remain until Bob has no more drainage whatsoever.  Since no one has ventured to speculate why he even has fluid at all, no one has a good theory about how long he will be draining.

On Tuesday, March 13, Bob will be sent to la-la-land via Versed one more time.  An Intervention Radiologist will insert the PleurX tube, instead of Dr. Sowden.  The procedure only takes a few minutes.  Bob will be observed for the rest of the day & then allowed to go home in the evening.  Then, on a schedule determined by Dr. Sowden, a home health nurse will visit Bob & drain the fluid that has collected in a little bag taped to Bob’s side.

Other than this snag, Bob’s recovery is nothing short of miraculous!  He has no pain, not even in his sternum.  He is walking the neighborhood already, which no one should be surprised by.  He continues to have family with him during every day but is now sleeping at home alone, save the 3 furry puppies that worship the ground he walks on.  He has had many, many amazing meals prepared & served, which he is so grateful for.  And many people have sent cards, called & visited to check up on him.  He is profoundly grateful for all of the amazing love & support he has felt from you all throughout this long illness. 

I will update again when we know how the procedure has gone.  Thank you for your continued prayers!